"Chagrinned"? That works, too.
My husband and I visited a lawyer to get our wills drawn up last Thursday.
We know that we should have done it long ago.
He also will draw up health proxies and we've got to follow up to make sure we have durable powers of attorney.
I am left with three positive thoughts about the process.
First, we haven't had a need for one. I'm grateful for the time we have had together.
Second, the documents are symmetrical. We agree on it all. There is nothing that is "his" or "hers". There are no extra considerations. I don't think I'll worry about putting my name on the deed for the New Mexico property which he purchased before he met me.
And third, my marriage will be "until death do us part". I'm truly going to spend the rest of my life with this wonderful man.
This week I am of sound mind.
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